What is perfect?
No one is..
Often we pursue perfection in our lives..
And in the end..
We landed up in nothing..
Since the beginning of time..
We have always wanted to look better..
We set a target for ourselves..
Some of us set it within our reach..
Made us feel better when we reached our goal..
And we have a sense of satisfaction..
Happy with our lives..
Whereas some of us set it out of our reach..
When we can't reach it..
We will feel sad..
Disappointed..
Depressed..
Does appearing beautiful mean all to us?
Why are we always so mindful of how others look at us?
Ever since the time we are born..
Our parents will dress us up cutely..
When we are young..
We will dress up ourselves..
Look pretty..
Cool..
Good..
When we are adults..
Means and ways of making ourselves look better we often may try..
Examples and more examples of good results tempt us to go for it..
Why?
Because we know that age is catching up with us?
Or is it because we just wanna look more appealing?
Facial appearance, physical appearance..
We look perfect on our appearances..
But have we ever considered the appearance we have inside of us?
Is it as good looking as the outward?
Or it is withering and old inside?
We often go for the extremes..
Not caring for what is happening to us..
Not minding how much we spend..
Not thinking of how the people around us will feel..
We just do whatever we want to..
We not only wanna look good when we are alive..
Even if we were to lie in the coffin..
We also wanna look good to be able to leave peacefully..
Maybe it is alright to be a perfectionist..
But..
Why do we also want others to be perfect?
A pretty face..
Good figure..
Perfect character..
This are the things we want others to have too..
Nobody is born perfect..
Why do we need to put such high hopes on others?
Why do we need to force others to be as perfect as our ideal "me"?
We often will change..
Change ourselves..
To meet the ideal person of others..
Why do we need to go to these extends?
Because of love?
Or is it because of just wanting to prove to others and yourself that you can be perfect?
We should learn to live as what we are..
Fight for the things you want..
The things you hold dear to..
Not giving up at the slightest blow..
Remember there is always people who loves you..
Life..
Is never perfect..
Why do we want our lives to have no troubles, no worries?
Make ourselves feel better?
Yar..
Everybody hopes that way..
Life is always filled with ups and downs..
We might feel happy this moment..
And feel sad at the next moment..
So short life is..
We often do not treasure what we have..
Why..
Is it due to the fact that we are too busy that we forget our loved ones?
Or is it that we have so much time for other things that we have neglected our closest fwends?
Is it true that till we have lost a person dear to us that we will then learn how to love?
Show that you treasure your loved ones and closest fwends..
A small act of kindness..
A smile saying thank you..
A warm hand shake saying i appreciate you..
Or a hug saying i love you..
Is is time that we should not let our pride hinder us in the way..
Actions that we should do..
We should do it now..
Words that we have to say..
Say it now..
If not..
It might be too late to say sorry..
It might be too late to say I love you..
What is love?
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person..
Sounds so difficult to understand..
There are so many definations for love..
What is yours?
We might think that love is the actions that we do..
To care for someone..
Worry for someone..
Hope that someone is always alright..
Make someone happy..
We might also feel that love is the actions that someone do..
Care for you..
Make you happy..
Be there for you..
Hope the best for you..
We are always caught up in our busy schedules and activities..
That we lack time to actually show care and concern or to love someone..
Is is so important that we need to go for our meetings, projects, activities, workouts, pastimes..
that we have neglected the important people in our lives?
Isn't it better to have your loved one beside you..
Caring for you..
Always be there for you..
Sometimes we want these from the other party..
We long for them..
But have you thought that..
Did you have time for them?
Were you the one who always give the reasons that you are busy?
It's ironic..
The phrase..
"I am busy"
Caught up with so much things..
Making us so messed up..
making others feel neglected..
Making people feel so unloved..
Why don't we try saying "i am there for you"?
Maybe it will help..
Lesser people would have worries..
Lesser people would have felt unloved..
Lesser people would feel that there is no one there for them..
What is your defination for your perfect cut, life and love?

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